Queen Spice in a mans world

I watched Trooping the Colour yesterday and when the anthem was played, my first thought was how alone the Queen looked standing without her husband, but my immediate second thought was one of admiration. Now many readers will be aware that I am a proud monarchist, but my admiration had nothing to do with that, patriotism or a love of London, but more to do with how this woman has, for decades, thrived in what is essentially a mans world.

She lives in a world that is dominated, sadly, by men, be it politicians, Civil Servants or world leaders, professions not known for their tact, subtlety or indeed lack of ego, but well known for a keen desire for personal advancement, steely focus and a strong grasp on the greasy pole of ambition. Yet they all express total respect for a woman who didn't even have to apply for her job, has done the same job for 60 years and will never have any chance of promotion.

Those who have seen The Audience starring Helen Mirren will have seen how even the most Socialist of PMs had utmost admiration for her, would look forward to their weekly meetings and would hang on every word she had to offer.

It was striking that soldiers taking part in yesterday's parade, when interviewed, were very clear that this was one of the best days of their lives and how they were immensely proud at being given the opportunity to participate - these are real men who have spent time fighting in places like Afghanistan, in shocking conditions and yet show enormous regard for this woman who lives in luxury protected by personal bodyguards.

She is the perfect example of how dignity, charm and a real belief in what you do can disarm others, gain their respect and build solid and enduring relationships - isn't this a fantastic lesson that we can all use, particularly women, in both business and life in general?

We don't need to fight fire with fire, we don't be to be cut throat in our approach and we don't have to play hard, we just need conviction, confidence and dignity

You don't have to like the Queen or even the idea of her, but you have to admit that to be able to hold her own in such a world shows real girl power - forget Sporty, Posh, Ginger, Baby & Scary, this is the original Queen spice, holding her own since 1952!